Nov 5, 2020
During this episode we talk with writer and holistic therapist Ellen Carr about connecting with our bodies at a deep level so that we can discover who we are and find fulfilment and joy in life. We talk about how the seasons around us affect us according to our Dosha, we talk about masculine and feminine energy, how the Western culture in which we live promotes more of a goal based masculine existence which pushes us away from the nurture and reflective nature of the feminine energy. We all need both, but as a society, we have become incredibly linear which isn’t good for us so we talk about lots of different ways we can find balance and develop non-linear ways of being that will help us to feel good about and connected to our lives. It’s a beautiful conversation laden with wisdom and once again, lots of food for thought.
You can find all the information we talked about by clicking this link to Ellen’s website http://being-change.com/ take the Dosha quiz if you’re up for it and come and find me on my website or social media :) and here's the story of the fisherman:
There was once a businessman who was sitting by the beach in a
small Brazilian village.
As he sat, he saw a Brazilian fisherman rowing a small boat towards
the shore having caught quite few big fish.
The businessman was impressed and asked the fisherman, “How long
does it take you to catch so many fish?”
The fisherman replied, “Oh, just a short while.”
“Then why don’t you stay longer at sea and catch even more?” The
businessman was astonished.
“This is enough to feed my whole family,” the fisherman said.
The businessman then asked, “So, what do you do for the rest of the
day?”
The fisherman replied, “Well, I usually wake up early in the
morning, go out to sea and catch a few fish, then go back and play
with my kids. In the afternoon, I take a nap with my wife, and
evening comes, I join my buddies in the village for a drink — we
play guitar, sing and dance throughout the night.”
The businessman offered a suggestion to the fisherman.
“I am a PhD in business management. I could help you to become a
more successful person. From now on, you should spend more time at
sea and try to catch as many fish as possible. When you have saved
enough money, you could buy a bigger boat and catch even more fish.
Soon you will be able to afford to buy more boats, set up your own
company, your own production plant for canned food and distribution
network. By then, you will have moved out of this village and to
Sao Paulo, where you can set up HQ to manage your other
branches.”
The fisherman continues, “And after that?”
The businessman laughs heartily, “After that, you can live like a
king in your own house, and when the time is right, you can go
public and float your shares in the Stock Exchange, and you will be
rich.”
The fisherman asks, “And after that?”
The businessman says, “After that, you can finally retire, you can
move to a house by the fishing village, wake up early in the
morning, catch a few fish, then return home to play with kids, have
a nice afternoon nap with your wife, and when evening comes, you
can join your buddies for a drink, play the guitar, sing and dance
throughout the night!”
The fisherman was puzzled, “Isn’t that what I am doing now?”